Five love languages

The five languages of love. We need to learn these languages. Verbal language- easiest to understand- to make phrases to show that love is in the heart. Words, words, words, never under estimate the power of words. Mention something positive they are doing, instead of being negative be positive, compliment, encouraging words, positive words, use words of love to bring out the love of your partner. Time- most important way of showing others that you love them. The shariya requires that the man spend time with his wife. The Prophet (saw) would meet each of his wives every single day. During the night it was the habit of Prophet (saw) to speak to Ayesha until late. When a wife asks for times she wants focus, undivided attention, she wants to be shown by her husband that he loves her. Language of giving gift- by gift we don’t mean something that you purchase at the store. It could be a poem, a flower in your backyard, you make a card,Giving gifts doesn’t mean you have to save up, or give something that is expensive. Women- realize that men like quality gift, than quantity. Men generally prefer quality gifts, rather than quantity gift giving each month. Men- women like gifts that are given oftenly. Advice- try to find gifts that are inexpensive, something that simply shows them that they are special to you. When a husband gives you a gift, he accepts you to like it, to jump with joy. Daily chores- even if a husband is not washing the dishes, or spending time with her on the weekend she has to realize that he pays for the rent, her clothing, her needs… this shows that he loves her. The Prophet (saw) warned the women from being ungrateful to her husband. If a person is taking care of you finically this shows that he loves you. Physical Touch- 1) intimacy 2) reaching out and touching- If a man is deprived or denied intimacy the husband thinks you don’t love him.